Read the article to the end and learn from my mistakes, then you will be happy! In this case, the photos will be thematic, from the Internet, because I do not have the right to upload real photos, but I did not even have any of them !!! Each second had such a situation, there were long, then they outgrow and a new level, and someone does end. Nous ... start!
We met in the spring of 2012, during training in Selhoz. university, like it was preparing the show for the student's spring, I do not remember exactly.
I will not call her name, in order to remain anonymous. I'll just name it Star (star). Although the one who knows me, immediately understand who is talking about, no matter how I tried to encrypt. Anyway...!
In the process of preparing our show, we got to know each other well. It is difficult to express words with just how much we had in common. We were both surprised by our mental similarity. Events developed at a hyper speed. Soon, we began to meet, first the relationship from a distance, since I lived in the village, but after the end of the sharaga moved to the city (Krasnodar).
There were plans to rent an apartment together, but we were unbelievably lucky, my grandmother Star, gave her an apartment and we did not have to spend money on rent. We lived in the Pashkovsky district on Lavochkin Street, I do not remember the house number! We bought everything we needed for our new home, were built up and I began to look for work. It would seem that everything is cool, here you have housing, money for furniture, my ancestors even presented the car in a short time, it only remains to start making money and live for our pleasure, but no ... I always had an awl In the ass, I wanted to in a supernatural way to get rich. I was always visited by some crazy ideas about earnings, I'm not saying that it's bad ... no, I just forgot that I live not alone, and not for myself, but for us.
Why not immediately settle down, at first cohabitation ?! Go to the first job and stay there, grow up the career ladder, as most people do on the planet. No, Sasha is a restless boy, he immediately gave a good post, to his liking, with a fat salary, and therefore changed his job as gloves.
Padding: 10px; left to yourself, you are only responsible for yourself. And if you live with a girl who also does not work ... Then you are my friend, it's better to bite your teeth and work on the result in one workplace, since you are responsible not only for yourself, but also for it. Span>
If you want to maintain a relationship, do so. Time will pass and your work will pay off, in parallel think about perspective, about creating something of your own, but do not abandon prematurely the main source of income until you feel a strong ground under your feet. Do not run ahead of the engine!
I'm not trying to expose myself to complete shit ... just saying as it is, I was selfish, it's 100%. Star tried to support me in every possible way, so as not to get into my head. She is very kind and sympathetic person, I regret that I did not appreciate her and her actions.
Of course, and it was not without flaws, believe me, there's not a small shell in my head! Her "knowledge" infuriated her very much, even if she did not understand anything at all, she would still make a kind of competence and prove her rightness to her, right away such people are very annoyed. And every time she told her about this, of course she did not want to admit this and then a conflict began.